There are only two things you can do when someone misrepresents/defames you. You can either go inward and try and ignore it and hope one day that truth wins out and that all slanderers tongues go silent as if cursed and all listeners of such things become keenly aware that they’ve been had–or you confront the lies and misrepresentations of your character head on.
That’s where I’m at. I’m too scared to throw chanclas these days; I fear they will boomerang back and hit me in the face.
On the micro level, I’m one day away from my divorce being final. I will be unmarried and 49 with two children who I thought I was doing a great job raising because of course I would because I gave it my all and all would be perfect.
I’m just as clueless as the next parent.
Sometimes I feel like…
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