Category Archives: sex

On Blogging, Writing, and Self-Promotion

Posted on August 22, 2015 by

The task seems daunting: how does one get ones words out into the world? How does one get those words taken seriously? Often writers are frustrated people. We are frustrated by ourselves when we aren’t writing. Frustrated by people who … Continue reading →

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Let the Naked Memoir Begin…

Posted on January 9, 2014 by

Being accurate about one’s teenage state of mind is wincingly painful at times… but I can’t talk about the later years without acknowledging the soup in which they were formed. So…The Gay Dad Project has graciously decided a version of … Continue reading →

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Third Thoughts of Remembrance

Posted on November 1, 2013 by

In the early days…and by that I mean the days when one could dream of being an artist and not laugh ridiculously at oneself for muttering that after a fifth beer or a fifth of something else.  The early days … Continue reading →

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Our New Season

Posted on September 11, 2013 by

If I’ve done nothing else then I’m here with you— the bedroom’s September window nights full of stars sky minus fires the darkness still alive with the songs of wings rubbing it can still be hot— but the mornings signal … Continue reading →

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Man Hands and Shaved Kitties

Posted on July 26, 2008 by
Posted in george Michael, Massage, Prostitution, pubic hair, sex, shaving | 3 Comments

Poem without Discussion

Posted on July 26, 2008 by
Posted in discussion, Gertrude stein, Poem, poetry, sex | Leave a comment

The Goal, The Experience

Posted on July 24, 2008 by
Posted in children, dust bunnies, Experience, goals, sex | 3 Comments

Old poems for old skin

Posted on March 29, 2008 by
Posted in Bad Sex, Lies, Poem, sex | Leave a comment

That kind of woman you like

Posted on March 8, 2008 by
Posted in crazy, sex, throwing muses, Women | Leave a comment

‘In Sickness and in Health,’ my ass.

Posted on February 29, 2008 by
Posted in Flu, marriage vows, sex, sick husbands | Leave a comment